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Post by nemo on Jan 16, 2006 12:54:06 GMT -6
Peacock!....Yum.
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Post by diane on Jan 16, 2006 13:14:08 GMT -6
And what is it with Iggy & Chuck? Iggy's report was hilarious & always those comments back at DMC on DPs site. I don't think Iggy posts over here, so I'll try to paraphrase from what he's told me. Two years ago, Iggy and the ever drunken stupor DMC and his wife were in the piano bar. A friend of Iggy's was singing and she was trying her hardest, but wasn't all that good, but not horrible. The drunken DMC and his bride were chastising her on her bad singing, yelling and trying to get her to stop in the middle of her song, and humiliated her beyond words. They got up to leave, shouting that they were going to go somewhere where people could really sing. This upset the gal so much that she ended up in tears. Iggy felt that for someone who claims to have the Hedo spirit, they were entirely over the edge. He's never forgotten it, and gets his stabs in every chance he gets. Personally, I think it's hillarious. My experience of Chuck on the boards is totally different than the Chuck in person....walk the walk or don't talk the talk is my theory. Now add to this years plot thickener (I didn't witness, but Jake or others can add their first hand knowledge on this point), Chuck was signing his every night "Lucille" gig, and from what I heard, he sings it in almost a convulsion-type method. I heard it was actually painful to watch. Someone else can expand on that part. Anyway, to make a long story longer, Iggy won't ever let Chuck forget how he humiliated his friend and made her cry. (My guess is Chuck was so drunk, he doesn't even realize why Iggy is upset, and chooses to ignore him, except when he can get someone else [read: Denny] to do his dirtywork). diane
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Post by Liz of Chris & Liz on Jan 16, 2006 13:41:23 GMT -6
Diane, You are ever gracious to fill me in on the behind the scenes Iggy/DMC saga. I've heard DMC sing & I'm surprised he'd hound anyone about "ability." I can't imagine having the balls to humiliate anyone who is brave enough to sing at Veronica's. I agree with your impression of live Chuck vs. board Chuck....I was amazed at who he was in person after only having "met" him on the boards. We've overlapped a few times & Chris has dove at the same time as DMC & Liz .... that is an entire other story!! Iggy sure does get a laugh from me on some of the retorts to DMCs posts. I've found a few instances of contradictory 'reality' of folks 'board' persona vs. how they are when you meet them in person ... it always makes me wonder what's up with that. I guess that's the beauty/curse of the net (and/or 'real' life??) ... we can create any persona we want. Liz
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Post by WSSkier on Jan 16, 2006 13:49:28 GMT -6
Sorry for the ramble here, but just a few thoughts that I felt I needed to post: I think Hazel was probably right about what post got it shut down. In the whole "Mario" thread, if you recall, even Denny put in a "dish" when he stated that he-who-has-many-names was seen in a wheelchair at Houston(using the disabled lines) as they were on the same flight home together(and didn't seem to have any problem getting around Hedo). I've come to realize that the Mr.&Mrs. know-it-all's are both a-holes. I'd met them at Delroy's the previous year(after , and they weren't friendly at all. I don't feel that I have the most magnetic personality, but most folks can tolerate a simple "Hello, my name is..." greeting. While many Denny posters do so out of friendliness/helpfullness to others, I believe that particular couple do so to merely stroke their needy egos with how much more they know than everyone else(at least that's what they think). While that is merely my perception, people have corroborated with stories having taken place at other times of rude, boorish behavior on the part of said couple...directed at fellow guests and directly contrary to the Hedo principle of RESPECT . I also congratulate Renee on an excellent trip report that ventured away from the typical observations(not that there's anything wrong with that) and visted the emotional/behavioral aspects of when respect isn't practiced by fellow guests. I know what it's like to be speechless when someone says something very disrespectful to you...it happened my first ever full day at Hedo(I presume one of those single male haters)...I almost didn't go back for a second trip except for the other fine people I got to meet on that first trip(thanks A-Lady). As I've become more comfortable with Hedo(and myself) on subsequent trips, I'd like to think that I'd just laugh off foolish comments as words from a fool, but you never know until you actually experience the moment. JMHO, Scott
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Post by WSSkier on Jan 16, 2006 14:02:33 GMT -6
Liz, I think you've got it. As the saying goes...people will always disappoint you(if you let them...and expectations will do that). I've also seen multiple instances of "net" personality vs. "real" personality while at Hedo. I'd like to think that I'm pretty much the real deal...not too different in person than my "online persona", but some folks go to Hedo with the intent of being an entirely different person than they are at home...to each his/her own(as long as they dont disrespect me). Scott
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Post by Kawaii Kaiju on Jan 16, 2006 14:36:18 GMT -6
Liz,
I'm sure there are many who would tell you that i am different on the board than i am in person. Most noticably, i'm SHY in person. <quit laughing folks! i really am! patty (& rupe) will tell you how she had to literally drag me into the group because i was so terrified of meeing people and all the pitchforks and torches>. i don't think i am a different person though, because i still feel and behave the same with the exception that in person i am less likely to tell you. in fact, until i really get to know and trust people, i'm verrrrrrrry quiet around them.
As for DMC, the first time i saw him at hedo, i was amazed at how little fun he seemed to be having..... i know that was just my perception (what a smart girl our Renee is), but there seemed to be so little enjoyment of the surroundings and people that i was too intimidated by his invisible wall to even try to aproach him to say hello. Looks like i might have saved myself a little bit of heartache there....
Zilla (who would have blamed herself if she had been brushed off)
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Post by Chicago Jake on Jan 16, 2006 14:59:10 GMT -6
Now add to this years plot thickener (I didn't witness, but Jake or others can add their first hand knowledge on this point), Chuck was signing his every night "Lucille" gig, and from what I heard, he sings it in almost a convulsion-type method. I heard it was actually painful to watch. Someone else can expand on that part. Boy, have you ever got that part right! I had the misfortune of witnessing his "performance art" once, and that was more than enough. I mean, I sing like crap, but he makes me look like Placido Domingo. I'd describe his singing style as a full-body dry heave coupled with a temper tantrum and a primal scream. I also agree with the dichotomy between "board Chuck" and "resort Chuck". I wonder what he's like in his normal life? But I disagree with Zilla about her being different. I always found you delighfully argumentative in person as well as on these boards, young lady. The only person on this board, of those I've met, who is distinctly different in real life is Dr. Bob. In person, he's almost human!.....Jake
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Post by Liz of Chris & Liz on Jan 16, 2006 15:00:05 GMT -6
As for DMC, the first time i saw him at hedo, i was amazed at how little fun he seemed to be having..... BINGO!
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Post by ♥ COVID-19♥ on Jan 16, 2006 15:05:13 GMT -6
While that is merely my perception, people have corroborated with stories having taken place at other times of rude, boorish behavior on the part of said couple...directed at fellow guests and directly contrary to the Hedo principle of RESPECT. OK, since this seems to be Dogpile On HedoDrunkMaster Day, I'll add my modest bit that may further corroborate what Scott just said. I go to Hedo at the Christmas/New Years time and there have been some occasions (not 2004 or 2005, thankfully) where my trip has overlapped with a portion of theirs. Everyday in the pool, I would see him holding court in his beanie at the same corner by Delroy's. I have also observed his "Lucille" performance, which has been entertaining. However, he caused quite a stir at one of the Repeater Parties one year that made for a rather uncomfortable moment that I was unfortunate enough to witness. At the party, he started screaming his head off at one of the managers, berating him, saying things like, "Goddammit, I've made over 40 fucking trips to this place over the years and I expect better treatment! You've got some nerve ... " blah, blah, blah. Couldn't hear the entire tirade (nor did I particularly want to), but what was frozen in my memory was the look of horror on the poor manager's face -- he had no idea this was coming just by showing up at a Repeaters Party (wish I could remember the manager, unfortunately, it was a long time ago and I wasn't paying strict attention during the staff intros). He was brutal and I can only assume that he must've been pretty juiced-up at that point. I also congratulate Renee on an excellent trip report that ventured away from the typical observations(not that there's anything wrong with that) and visted the emotional/behavioral aspects of when respect isn't practiced by fellow guests. Yep, that trip report was typically clever of her -- inspired, I would call it. Best example of the old saying, "revenge is a dish best served cold". I know what it's like to be speechless when someone says something very disrespectful to you...it happened my first ever full day at Hedo(I presume one of those single male haters)...I almost didn't go back for a second trip except for the other fine people I got to meet on that first trip ... As I've become more comfortable with Hedo(and myself) on subsequent trips, I'd like to think that I'd just laugh off foolish comments as words from a fool, but you never know until you actually experience the moment.
Echoes both my experiences and my sentiments to a 'T'.
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Post by vbplyr on Jan 16, 2006 15:38:50 GMT -6
ok, I think this is probably the only time I have actually known (meaning met) the person or couple being discussed - so I will add my 2¢ worth. My third trip to hedo - I was there with 2 other women, one which was a prude beyond belief, and a very frightened one at that. Our first 10 minutes on the resort, at Paulette's bar, a group of nude people came and took over the nude bar. Chuck and Liz were among them. They came over to us, and asked if any of us were going to be visiting the nude side. I said I might think about it. They each took me by the hand, guided me down the beach, when we got to the sign, told me to undress then proceeded to introduce me to a bunch of other people they knew, telling them to take it easy on me. I don't know if I would have gotten to the nude beach that year, if they hadn't been so kind. The whole week, they kind of looked after us, and made my very prudish friend much more comfortable. If anyone remembers my post on DP's after my first Sandy hook experience, you would understand how much I appreciated their kindness. On the other hand, I have seen him not so nice in the piano bar to other people - and Liz, by the end of the week didn't seem so thrilled with Chuck being so nice to us. That being said, there is no excuse for her behavior toward Renee, but after I realized who was being talked about, and yes it took me a while - I can totally see her behaving in that manor. There does seem to be a sense of entitlement because of their often spoken about 40+ trips. If Renee was speechless at the time of the verbal attack, I hope that someone else had the wits about them to put Liz in her place. I would have. There is just no excuse for that, no matter how miserable your life is.
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Post by Exildo Wonsetler Briggs III on Jan 16, 2006 16:17:09 GMT -6
The only person on this board, of those I've met, who is distinctly different in real life is Dr. Bob. In person, he's almost human!.....Jake Ya' know, Jake, I think most folks now understand I'm just stirring the pot. Of course, it could be said that if I'm not pissing off Lib'ruls, then I ain't doing my job! But I digress.... I'm surprised about the DMC thingie. I met them many moons ago, and even attended their very nice wedding ceremony on the beach years ago. Maybe DMC doesn't give us any shit 'cuz I sing a lot in the piano bar and singing is one thing, well....how can one say this? - I do fairly well having been a classically trained singer during my younger years. Chuck doesn't dare give me any shit in the piano bar 'cuz he can't begin to hold a bucket compared to me. His Lucille thing *is* funny, however! Sometimes, he's too drunk to remember the words or keep up with the music. Sad to see some folks who go to Hedo so often apparently not practicing the respect they know goes along with the place. .............Bob
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Post by innit Geezer on Jan 16, 2006 22:07:52 GMT -6
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Post by diane on Jan 17, 2006 0:14:50 GMT -6
Photoshop a beanie on that head, and remove the smile and you've got a winner Gary. Too funny, and a clean pic besides!!!
diane
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Post by Driveby on Jan 17, 2006 0:50:49 GMT -6
Taken from John and Renee's trip report.
"One guest had the perception that I was an accessory to murder by killing the poor birds in order to obtain their feathers, and admonished me for irresponsibly being unaware of their origin."
Wow, Looks like that guest can't help me here.
See, this labador retriever I know is a great pheasant dog. (one of the best) Will flush the bird out and retrieve it as fast as you shoot it. The problem is the bitch won't pick up a dead goose.
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Post by WSSkier on Jan 17, 2006 8:39:21 GMT -6
Funny that other folks also noticed that they never seemed to laugh or be smiling.
Also, I rarely saw them spending extended periods conversing with other guests. That may be their choice, or maybe once somebody spends a few minutes around them, they just want to move on. ;D
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Post by Irish Stu on Jan 17, 2006 8:40:18 GMT -6
Renee
As I can't say it over 'there' now I'll say this here... that was an outstanding trip report and you have my utmost respect for enduring that unwarranted verbal assault without resorting to replying in kind. I know that if it had been me, however much I tried to not allow her to provoke me, I would have ended up giving as good as I got, which whilst satisfying at the time, serves no purpose other than to provoke further argument.
Well done for behaving with such dignity!! Pure class.
Simon
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Post by Irish Stu on Jan 17, 2006 8:44:10 GMT -6
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Post by Ardbeg... innit on Jan 17, 2006 8:47:48 GMT -6
Golden Louie worthy Simon!
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Post by Hedo69 on Jan 17, 2006 9:15:25 GMT -6
OOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO-Nice one Simon! Doubtful if it will register or not with the appropriate party, but it sure makes us smile!
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Post by justheidi on Jan 17, 2006 12:07:13 GMT -6
....that was a nice little bite............good job simon
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Post by PattyD on Jan 17, 2006 18:28:00 GMT -6
Liz, Most noticeably, i'm SHY in person. <quit laughing folks! i really am! patty (& rupe) will tell you how she had to literally drag me into the group because i was so terrified of meeing people yeah that's right... you & Rupe are both quiet and shy and I did not DRAG you I just made an announcement that the Karen we had just met was really Zilla we all knew from the msg boards... the rest is history! Nice post Simon! Nice Pic Gary, can you add a beanie? As far as DMC & his wife.... we have known them for many years and have come to realize they can be very nasty when they drink. It used to be more him but now due to medical reasons their roles have reversed and she is worse then he ever was. The singing of "Lucille" was funny the first few times but it got old quick, I would much rather hear Dr. Bob sing (he really can sing) We have also noticed that the person on the msg boards is MUCH different than the real person. We also attended their wedding but opted out of the party that followed, we chose to stay on the beach. Geographically we live local but do not socialize. Renee wrote a wonderful trip report and the thread that got closed was mainly kudos for her & how other folks not being as classy as Renee might not have handled the situation the same (someone else might have not chosen to walk away "Oops, sorry I upended your table onto your lap but you were being such a bitch I could not help it") Patty
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Post by Hazelita on Jan 17, 2006 20:08:26 GMT -6
I've come to realize that the Mr.&Mrs. know-it-all's are both a-holes. I'd met them at Delroy's the previous year(after , and they weren't friendly at all. I don't feel that I have the most magnetic personality, but most folks can tolerate a simple "Hello, my name is..." greeting. Scott, my observations were exactly the same. I saw Chuck sitting at the edge of the hot tub one night during a WWWW trip and I waded over to him to introduce myself (since we had gotten along just fine up to that point on the message boards). I held out my hand to him but he did not take it. Nor did he reply to me. He nodded once, turned his head away from me and completely ignored the still outstretched hand. I was so embarrassed. Later that same night I saw him fall down the steps in the dining room (the ones that lead from the top tier to the next lower tier of tables). I almost guffawed out loud. He was so shit-faced it was unbelievable. Lushy Liz came to his rescue but she was in no better shape than he was. I found them so amusing ... and yet so sad at the same time. I have never respected him again. And this incident during this past trip when Lushy Liz made our beloved Renee feel so crappy just rammed it home for me. Chucklehead and Lushy Liz are both truly assholes.
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Post by Just Mike on Jan 17, 2006 20:49:35 GMT -6
me add salt in a wound? or start an initial cut? NAH...never. im just an easy going fun-loving guy that prefers leather shoes, leather seats, and insists that my food has to have had a face or a mother at some point in time.
as far as feathers? don't know much about em..but they sure did look good on the ladies that night...and even if you DID have to kill a friggin peacock to get em...im all for it if that made for an enjoyable sight for us men to see that night
just a thought
Mike
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Post by WSSkier on Jan 18, 2006 17:28:33 GMT -6
I held out my hand to him but he did not take it. Nor did he reply to me. He nodded once, turned his head away from me and completely ignored the still outstretched hand. I was so embarrassed. Later that same night I saw him fall down the steps in the dining room (the ones that lead from the top tier to the next lower tier of tables). I almost guffawed out loud. He was so shit-faced it was unbelievable. Lushy Liz came to his rescue but she was in no better shape than he was. I found them so amusing ... and yet so sad at the same time.I'm thinking...Pathetic.
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Post by Captain Gary on Jan 19, 2006 16:51:36 GMT -6
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Post by PattyD on Jan 19, 2006 17:42:37 GMT -6
;D LOL very funny Gary!!! how long before it gets deleted by DP? Quicker than my thread I would guess. Patty
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Post by Lady Irie on Jan 19, 2006 19:34:25 GMT -6
Wow, and here I thought this thread had died! Thanks guys for the accolades. I wish I was the type of person who could have reacted by throwing some witty remark or flipping the table, while saying "oops"! Simon, this was one of those occasions where I was totally thrown off guard, and embarrassed at the scene she was making. There aren't too many times I'm left speechless, and that was one of them. I was absolutely stunned by her attitude. I just never in a million years would have expected that kind of response at Hedo of all places. (Simon, that post was hysterical!) The only savings grace in it all is the fact that I apparently, quite unwittingly, pissed her off to no end. For that, I am grateful! Ever curious was HIS behavior. I am not quite sure what to make of him, with his head bent down, staring directly into his plate. His hands I believe were on the table on either side of his plate. He wasn't moving a muscle. Never looked up, at me, or at his wife. Just kept staring at his empty plate. Scott and BB, so glad you weren't the type of people who would judge a whole group by a few ill mannered individuals. Gary, you're always such a bad boy, and that's why I love you! [ Best example of the old saying, "revenge is a dish best served cold". So THAT's what that means! LOL
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Post by innit Geezer on Jan 19, 2006 23:17:38 GMT -6
Not only have I been plucked against my wishes but I've been Brazilian waxed too. It's alright, both grow back.
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Post by justheidi on Jan 20, 2006 6:44:12 GMT -6
good one Gary................
Renee.......this thread won't die for awhile........................what happened to you was just so wrong on so many levels..............................your "hedo" family has jumped to defend our sister!!!!!!!! Hugs
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Post by Lady Irie on Jan 20, 2006 7:46:35 GMT -6
Funny Gary! Awww, gee shucks, Heidi.....in all seriousness though, it is truly amazing, with all the BS that happens on this board, the comradary is truly amazing. Hedo people are the best! (Well, almost all of them.
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